betrothel, courting, dating?

What will it be?
I know my oldest is only 10. So most likly it will be atleast another 10 years before I have to deal with this. But i feel its never to early to think about it and make a game plan.
Atleast won't hurt to think about it and talk it over with hubby.
That doesn't mean we are making plans set in stone, but just thinking.
I got this in my head becuase of an article i just recently read on the matter.

So what will it be?

Well i can confindenly say that betrothel is out; the practice of the Farter choosing for his daughter who she is to marry, with out her having any choice or having the joy of falling in LOVE! Nope i don't agree with that.
Though I do belive my girl's mates are already chosen for them, but by their Heavenly Farther, not thier earthly farther. And i hope they do wait on the Lord for that special young man that God has desinged just for them.

So that leaves coutring and dating left.
I do not know too much about courting and how it looks like and all, but that does seem much the better choice than dating.
I do not care at all for the world's way of dating. So if we go with dating it will be very resticted and parent supervised for sure.
Of course it will depend on the childrens ages I would think and if our daughters are still at home by that time. I would like my girls to be at thome till they are married but I know that may not be realistic.

I also feel we need to have standerds, rules , and guide lines set so that are childeren know what to expect and what we allow and do not allow. But i really feel most of it has to be kind of felt out. Depending on the child, how the 2 meet, the age of both, maturity level, and so on.
But i guess mostly you really don't know what it will be like untill your there and dealing with it.

Its somthing to pray about as well of course.

Welll this is just somthing thats been on my mind and i thought i would share it here.
I would love hearing you comments on this.

Blessings, Mae